Is it normal to hate makeup




















How did they make it do that? Where did their face go? How do they look like that now? The last time you attempted to do the smokey eye, it just looked like someone punched you in the face. Disney LIED to you. Every once in a while you find a product — usually at the convenience store — that leads to you convincing yourself that perhaps makeup can be easy. Maybe this mascara or eyeliner will change everything and will make you actually want to wear makeup every day!

You do not understand the difference between foundation and coverup and powder and concealer and you never will. Your friends have tried to explain it to you a thousand times, but you usually get bored halfway through the lesson and just stop listening. Your personality would be so much better if it was completely different from the way it is now. Sometimes people take your whole not-wearing-makeup-thing as a stance against society.

But it also takes time for your brain to recalibrate your new self-image. Once you become more aware of the role that makeup plays in your life, you can help your brain adjust your self-image if it's been tethered to the contoured, Kardashian version of yourself.

This will send the message to your subconscious that you are worth more than simply your appearance, and that alone will do wonders for your self-love and your life in general. Clinical psychologist Daniel Sher acknowledges that the basic law of behavioral psychology follows that the more frequently you are exposed to something that makes you uncomfortable, the easier it becomes.

A study presented at the American Psychological Association asked women to look at themselves in the mirror daily for two weeks without makeup on. Over time, they became more self-confident and self-compassionate.

Their overall levels of discomfort and distress also dropped. In this sense, we're not just redefining our idea of beauty, but our culture's. No wonder my brain was hardwired to prefer my face with makeup. As our own beauty director Jenny Jin has explored, makeup is not necessarily bad for our skin. But giving your skin an extensive break doesn't hurt. This Will Be the Amazon Coat of Does Hand Sanitizer Work?

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Log In Never created a password? You are not currently subscribed. Perhaps people think, 'God, who is this child? Giang Nguyen Report. The one most profound response I usually get is 'Woah, where'd your eyelashes go? They're nearly invisible! If I am wearing mascara, people generally think I'm not wearing any makeup and think my eyelashes are naturally black. However, if I actually put on some eye-shadow or lipstick, I'm usually met with 'what's the special occasion?

I think it's important to mention that I have very little interest and skill in the realm of makeup, which is generally where my lack of makeup that I wear comes from. Who knew that eyelashes had such an effect on my appearance! My only makeup is mascara, and without mascara, my eyelids seem to appear bald. Hannah Elizabeth Report. It sucks to be that fair.

Disclaimer, I am pale. In her photo without makeup I don't even have frecklles. My eyelashes are invisible without mascara, my eyebrows are almost invisible, and my whole face disappears. I haven't been outdoors without mascara since I was 14 years old I'm I've finally embraced my blond hair, but for a very long time, I coloured it darker than it is normally.

When I have makeup on my parents ask to dial it down since I'm a huge makeup freak. And when I don't have makeup on my friends ask me if I'm sick or high. It's always a see-saw for me, never anything moderate. Here's me with makeup and lashes and everything on my face. It's an everyday look with subtle eye shadow and a bit of glow on my face. I'm without any makeup in a selfie with my dad. And I don't look that bad cause I was in a place with an amazing atmosphere that helped my skin look fresh So it doesn't matter if you put makeup on or not, what matters is if you're comfortable in both or one.

If you find makeup is too much for you and you love staying bare-faced—do it. Don't bother following what others do with themselves. Akshara Joshi Report. Strange men will try to make sexual advances, even in work environments. I've had men with girlfriends and fiances try to talk to me. Women can be awfully snarky and even dismiss you as friends. I once was harassed by a jealous female roommate who would walk past my room at night when I was sleeping and call me a swear word.

I stood up to her and she actually punched me in the face. The girl is crazy. Without makeup, I am noticed as average. I blend in with society and actually do not receive as much negative attention. Females are friendlier and they appear to me as friends, wanting to hang out. Males regard me as a friend, not some weird sex toy.

I find value in wearing makeup and not wearing makeup. The whole point is to not value your looks and more on your achievement and personality. With makeup, the only thing some people notice is your looks and that is sad. Emily F. Marsico Report. Hair is something we do, too. In the 'natural' photos, it's pulled back and not in the face.

Because of this, I don't really get that 'you look exhausted' comment whenever I don't wear it, but I do get a lot more compliments or stares when I am. This is only recently because I've barely just started getting good at my makeup. I used to be terrible and people would tell me I'm much better without it, but once I learned how to do it properly I think we can all agree I look better with it on. When I'm not wearing makeup, I just go unnoticed.

I blend in with everyone else. Honestly, it's not too much different when I wear it though, most of the compliments I'll get are from other girls who love makeup too. The only different response I get is on social media. Posting a picture with makeup will get way more attention than one without.

Amanda Duese Report. I look very different with makeup than I do without. With makeup on, I probably behave differently so that is definitely half of it. I think I might be more assertive I probably come off as more bitchy , partially because I like to get things done and be on my way and being more attractive facilitates that, but also because I get harassed a fair bit with makeup.

I was actually out running this summer with no makeup on, all sweaty and somebody barked at me so I feel like harassment may just have something to do with the city I live in! Holly Megan Watson Report. Men are nicer to me; they hold the door, buy me drinks, and give me compliments. Men also tend to stare at me and attempt to strike up a conversation more often.

I get complimented on my makeup whenever I go to the mall. Women beg me to teach them how I do my eyebrows. People who have seen me without makeup tell me that my face looks completely different with it.

This is how I look in the summertime. You can see all my freckles and my uneven skin tone. Women find me more approachable and friendly. I just personally believe I look better with it and like to wear it whenever I can. Cierra Irene Report. If I'm with a group of friends, those are the only people I'll converse, dance and have a laugh with. No one outside the group will talk to me. When they do, this is what they usually say. I was scared to approach you. You seemed like you were going to be mean.

Get this, the amount of times I've been approached for escorting offers is uncountable. I've been stopped from going to an apartment party by the receptionist because 'working girls aren't allowed before 10 PM. And by no means am I saying there's anything with that profession. I'm just telling you my experiences. I think I look a lot younger. But that's still me at Still, no one dares to approach me unless I approach them.

Still a few stares though. However, I'm much more peaceful. And usually no questions from anyone. Maybe the makeup draws attention? I don't know. All I know is I'm the same person in both situations. It may be just the different attitudes towards makeup. I mean, do I look significantly different? You be the judge. Ash Sab Report.

My confidence grows significantly when I am wearing makeup, and I think that is actually a huge contributor to the amount of attention I get. Confidence attracts. Not shunned but not really noticed either. I get no special treatment, stares or rubbernecks. Customer service people are polite to me but not overly friendly, no middle-aged women give me the stink eye.

I come across as respectable and wholesome. People treat me very noticeably different when I have a full face on. People will notice me, and definitely be more friendly and accommodating. People associate attractiveness with the worthiness of their attention which is depressing but true. Old ladies will give me dirty looks and men will leer but all in all, people go above and beyond to be perceived in a positive light by me because they value my opinion more.

Pros and cons. Charlotte Green Report. I constantly have to tell people whether or not I am wearing makeup. There are two drops of BB cream and some sparkly eye shadow. And my favorite nude lips". Ankita Srivastava Report. My friends don't mind either way. I have my eyebrows, mascara, kohl, eyeliner, and tinted lip balm on for this one.

It's my day-to-day look, and nowadays I get compliments for it often. Sometimes, when I wear a dark lip or a full face of makeup, people stop to compliment me. See, the thing is—I used to have insecurities.

I still do have them. They didn't just vanish under a layer of makeup. But, back then, they used to bother me, and I used to be terribly self-conscious about them. It hurts to hear your insecurities echoed back at you, and I tried hundreds of things to get others to stop doing that—from going full face every day to just staying at home. Spoiler alert: nothing worked. Over the years, I've realized three things: I am too lazy to put on a full face every day.

I hate isolation. You can't change anyone's opinion about you. In fact, it is much harder to change your own perception of self. So, I came back. I stopped caring. I stopped listening to the voice in my head that said I had to be liked by everyone. I also stopped hanging out with friends who prodded with my insecurities. I don't care much for people's reactions anymore. Everything is met with a smile and a simple thanks.

That's the trick to understanding another's opinions: They're always going to be there. But, you don't have to take them if you don't want to. I like using makeup to accentuate my features and it works for me. That's all there is to it.

Think about what you will. Gayathri Mahesh Report. I can't see a difference? She has great skin and looks marvellous in both her pics. And ladies generally complimenting on how nice I look with the makeover I put a good amount of time in.

They sometimes ask what brand I used, treating me like a walking commercial board. The only thing that disappeared a bit was my lipstick, but it still looked good enough to go to another wedding if I had one to go at 11 pm. Little do they know, I probably know more than they do. But, other than that, it seems like I get a lot of compliments on how I look when I wear nicely done makeup. Sue Croke Report. Treating you like a walking billboard? I mean Every nurse that came in asked me which school I went to - and they didn't mean university, they meant high school.



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